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Sunday, March 19, 2017

Dont ACCEPT Michèle Schlehofer's Homophobia!

 
I recently received an email from two academics who are seeking PAYING parental participants for a study of "transgender and gender non-conforming children (TGNC)". The two women doing the study are Michèle Schlehofer, Ph.D. and Lori Cortez-Regan, MA

The email being circulated: 
Before moving on lets take a closer look at the extensive Transgender and Gay/Lesbian work/experience the Dr of the pair Michèle Schlehofer has. A little background materiel on Michele for starters:

Her parents had high expectations for Michèle; “beginning in kindergarten, my father expected me to earn all A’s.”  A self-described “nerd,” Michèle was a serious student with a small circle of “nerdy” friends. However, no one in her extended family had been to college, so their expectations were vague, with no talk about college. While her parents were, and have continued to be, supportive of any choice she made, it was left to Michèle to choose her own path after high school. Michèle’s vision was that she’d graduate high school, marry and raise a family.
Michèle attended a community college, paid for by her parents, commuting from home. She majored in human services where she reveled in her exposure to sociology and feminist theory. At 19, she married her 25-year old boyfriend. Although they had nothing in common, he was supportive of her at the time she most needed it.
In other words, when Michele's parents werent footing the bill, Michele found a guy (regardless of the lack of romantic interest) who would financially pitch it when needed.

Having applied to 12 schools, for M.A. or Ph.D. programs, she accepted the only Ph.D. program that accepted her, at the pricey Claremont Graduate University in California. Having graduated college with no debt, “I knew nothing about how to finance graduate study,” so her first year of graduate school was paid for with student loans.
Well, Michele might not be too bright, but at least she's honest! The great thing about college, regardless of shit grades, if you have the money and the will and the postage stamps, apply to enough of them and one is bound to accept you!

Although married for 7 years, she realized early on that the marriage was a mistake, the two being “polar opposites.” She divorced at age 26 but, after ending another ill-fated relationship, she had a son, Ty. Then a single mother, living across the country from family, she went through a very rough patch financially. She took a number of teaching and research jobs at various local colleges, to support her and Ty, but she was still amassing a significant student debt.
Meaning, hubby #1 realized Michele was only invested in his wallet so he divorced her, she carelessly got herself knocked up from another guy, then bemoaned not having mommy and daddy nearby to use for free child care. Between nights out on the town and babysitters, Michele accumulated a growing debt! Whats a woman to do?
Carrying $70,000 in student debt, she was in a state of panic about finances, so Michèle applied broadly for academic jobs, submitting 40 applications across the U.S. She focused on the East Coast, to be closer to her family. She was in high demand for teaching-focused positions and had scheduled about 25 phone interviews and 13 visits to campuses, most for January and February. However, Salisbury University (located in a somewhat rural area on the Eastern Shore of Maryland) made her an immediate offer in December but demanded a quick reply. Facing two months of campus visits away from her infant son (her mother had offered to care for Ty for the two months), Michèle faced a dilemma – accept the guaranteed position at Salisbury or hold out for the possibility of being offered a position elsewhere,. “Having responsibility for an infant made all the difference, so I took a bird in the hand rather than two in the bush.
In other words, fearing her previous predicament of applying everywhere and receiving only a single acceptance/offer, despite her displeasure at working for Salisbury Steak Uni, Michele (rightly) feared nobody else would hire an unlicensed no skilled applied social psychology wannabe academic, so she settled. In effort to receive tenure Michele quickly set out to publish as much garbage as possible. See examples here:

Lori Cortez-Regan has less academic publications (she has none), therefore together Michelle and Lori have amassed ZERO backgrounds/background related education/works on Transgender or the Homophobic Gender Non Conforming DSM gravy train. So what could have happened to have lead a subpar third-rate academic to jump on the Trans-Train?
While establishing her academic career, Michèle’s life also has been eventful on the family front. Two years after moving to Salisbury, she began dating Donnie Copper, a personal trainer with whom she worked out. They married in 2012, and in 2014, baby Don Jr (DJ) arrived. Big brother Ty’s activities, as a gender nonconforming child, have become a focus of Michèle’s community involvement.
Now it becomes clear, a HOMOPHOBIC Michele Schlehofer saw her Gay son as a meal ticket and a career step! Having already written/published on her PERSONAL woes of single motherhood, why not take it a step further by TYing in that woe with popular buzz issues like Trans/GNC. But given Michele came late to the party and there are literally tens of thousands of personal accounts child abuses by the parents of a Transgender/GNC child, Michele had to step up her game, hence the search for some of those parents for her little study. Clearly getting parents to talk about or discuss their Trans/GNC child hasnt been as easy as I suspect Michele and company to have thought, so Michele added a little incentive:
Michèle Schlehofer, Salisbury Steak Uni, Lori Cortez-Regan, Humboldt State Uni and depending on their grant amount are PAYING for subjective SELF REPORTED (Useless) information to fuel a bullshit study that will lend further false evidence that Gay and Lesbian children are ABNORMAL (Trans/GNC)! All so that Michele can break her arm patting herself on the back for what a fine HOMOPHOBIC mother she is AND make a much needed buck or two to boot!

Little does Michele know her HOMOPHOBIC study has been/is compromised, but on the plus side, my friends and family (who faked having a trans/gnc child) who have been interviewed and are lined up to be interviewed thank Michele and Lori for the gift card! 

Obviously this will be revisited after the study is published, the HOMOPHOBIC questions asked will also be highlighted at that time. 

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Monday, March 13, 2017

How the HATRED of Homosexuals GreenLighted the Era of Transgender


The other night Mrs Dirt and I finished watching the eight part Nordic crime drama Modus. By the end of episode 1 it was apparent that the series had a homosexual theme. A few more episodes in something more relevant (to us as Lesbians) became blatant, homosexuals still remain one of or perhaps the MOST viciously, savagely and subtly hated group of humans on the planet. I dont say that simply because that was the case in a television series, I say it because it is the truth!

There isnt anything within the realm of possibility (and FAR outside of the realm) that heterosexual society hasnt tried to use to CHANGE homosexuals and where and when they have/are unsuccessful-they murder us or, in cases of young homosexuals, they make homosexuality seem so abhorrent that suicide would be a far better choice. Choice being the operative word, we can choose the kill ourselves, what we cannot and do not choose is to be Homosexual. That lack of choice (suicide or a life of intolerant hate/bigotry) led seemingly more sympathetic Hets to find or figure out alternative options for the perverts among them. An alternative that grew out of the DSM 1.

Being Gay or Lesbian once meant being put into the same category as rapists, child molesters and males who fetishized (got erections/masturbated to the idea of) being women. Unfortunately little has changed from then (the 1950s until now 2017), with the exception of willingly accepting that (or near so) categorization in the form of the LGBTQII and/or an assortment of other acronyms not listed. Homosexuals let our guard down when the Psychiatric Complex pretended to remove Homosexuality from its ABNORMAL behaviour book back in 1973.
  • The fact is Homosexuality has never fully been removed from the DSM (and/or other Mental Diagnostics), like creative accounting its merely been creatively hidden.
DSM I:
DSM II:
DSM III:
DSM IV:
DSM V: And in one fell swoop, all aspects of homosexuality were folded right back into the DSM under the mental disorder Gender Dysphoria! Setting up Homosexuals once again to be diagnosed with a mental disorder, only this time Homosexual children have been included and this time the Homosexual cure involves dangerous drugs and torturous mutilative surgeries.
 

Homosexuals have existed as long as Heterosexuals have been making babies and despite Gays and Lesbians that have made historical contributions/advancements to Society, despite Gays and Lesbians pooling financial resources/efforts to change laws and misunderstood/ignorant or hate filled Heterosexual views/treatment of us, in the course of Human existence little has in fact changed for Homosexuals.

Yet within the course of a few short decades, particularly the current decade, Transgender has blossomed into TV shows-Films-Musicians-Media darlings-Models-Actors/Actresses etc. FEDERAL/State Laws, International Laws etc. Federal/National changes/protections in schools. Bear in mind, I'm merely skimming the surface of the explosion Transgender has had in every facet of society in recent times. What accounts for Society's different reaction between the LG b T?

While working on this post, the 1996 film Twilight of the Golds came to mind. Mrs Dirt had never seen the film before and due to the feelings it provoked in me, I had only ever watched it once. Together we angrily watched the film the other night. As Lesbians, the film is of course a difficult film to watch, but HIGHLY important and growing more important for Homosexuals by the second.

If you're not familiar, the film deals with an upper middle class family (mom/dad/brother/sister). The son of the family is Gay and the married daughter has just found out she is pregnant with her first child. The much loved son-in-law coincidentally (with colleagues) discovers through a GNOME project a way to predict the likelihood of finding out if a fetus will be Homosexual. Needless to say he and his wife's fetus is tested and there is a 90% chance the male fetus WILL be Gay, or as they say in the film with disgust "be like David". There is a bit of family conspiracy to keep David in the dark about the baby's Homosexuality, particularly because his sister hasnt decided if she wants to abort the Homosexual fetus (her husband and parents do).

Needless to say David finds out and confronts his parents about their own (not so hidden) Homophobia and demands to know his father's true feelings about Homosexual him. The father tells David "And how do I really feel? I'll tell you. I think you're sick and diseased and if there were a cure I'd want you cured. Thats how I really feel." Interestingly something echoed in a recent interview with DykeOn KD Lang who was asked her mothers response to KD telling her she was a Lesbian at age seventeen, her mother stated "I'd rather be dead than to have you tell me that." Lets be honest, something that has been echoed throughout the lives of Gays and Lesbians forever and still.

It is both chilling and sobering, and no matter the amount of Gay or Lesbian the-world-does-not-really-HATE-us-that-much spin we so often tell ourselves; the polite hatred, the seething hatred and the violent hatred from our closest loved ones to perfect strangers is staggering!

So when the smoke of Transgenderism has dissipated and the mirrors have all been smashed, all that remains is the vile ugly truth; that the unadulterated repugnant HATRED of Homosexuals fueled, fuels and will fuel the Heterosexual prayers, hopes and dreams of fixing our offensive (homosexual) abnormality by normalizing us in THEIR own (heterosexual) image-of acceptability!

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Friday, March 3, 2017

NORMAL Lesbians Viewed as VIOLENT & Transgender


Last night I received a comment and an email message (emotionally & ignorantly mind you) stating this blog is "violent" and I as a Butch Lesbian am transgendered. Here is the comment and my response back:

After responding, I checked my email to find a similar if more hateful/angry message:
And all from spending a mere 20 minutes here:
NORMAL Lesbians functioning/behaving and being Lesbian have always been viewed by society (heterosexuals) as abnormal. Fuck, the DSMs various versions alone prove that. That transgender grew out of the DSMs hetsplained notions (perverts/freaks/abnormal) of homosexuality is proof!

There is nothing trans about functioning as a NORMAL Lesbian. Where Lesbians are believed to be transgender? Therein lies pure putrid homophobia! And repeatedly pointing THAT out is the only VIOLENCE here!

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Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Trans Trending-Who is STILL Transitioning



Lukus-Lesbian

Elliot-Lesbian

Anden-Lesbian

Austin-Lesbian

Ewan-Lesbian

Elliot-Lesbian

Eryk-Lesbian

Angel-Lesbian

L-Lesbian

Behind EVERY dyke listed here lies a supportive STRAIGHTBIAN.  In the past STRAIGHTBIANS supported Lesbians to the poor house, supported Lesbians to the unemployment line, supported Lesbians into debt, supported Lesbians into high drama, supported Lesbians into lower self esteem, supported Lesbians into dysphoria etc. Today's STRAIGHTBIANS are supporting Lesbians to death!

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Saturday, February 25, 2017

Lesbian Tools for Identifying a STRAIGHTBIAN


In recent posts Mrs Dirt and I have written individually and written together, slowly chipping away at centuries of Lesbian inaccuracies, revealing a dual picture of the oblique perception of Lesbian and the Women who have forged that skewed perception by co-opting Lesbian. By injecting biology back into the paint, each post is a brush stroke laying bare the vast differences in Lesbian behaviour vs the behaviour of Girls/Women. These differences are KEY to understanding ourselves, our unique behaviour and our place (or lack thereof) in Hetero society and perhaps more importantly possessing the tools to recognize the overwhelming number of (STRAIGHTBIAN) Women hetsplaining their distorted approximations of Lesbian that has gone to make many STRAIGHTBIANS wealthy, fortified many more academic careers and generated an impotent political movement (Radical Feminism), carving a treacherous landscape that threatens the safety of every Lesbian alive least we mention every Lesbian dead!

The more tools we have in our Lesbian arsenal, the better equipped we are to fight the egregious lies STRAIGHTBIANS/RadFems have lead society and worse Lesbians ourselves into believing. Below are some core behaviours that should raise a Lesbian red flag or two:
  • Regardless of age, declaring they're a Lesbian is constant, excessive and over the top. Lesbian youth obviously are allowed a honeymoon period when they first come out, but once acquainted with other Lesbians/Lesbian community that shout-it-from-the-rooftop-I'm-a-Dyke fades. If said Lesbian is 40 something and still acting like they just came out-BEWARE!
  • If heavily involved in abortion rights/rape issues/prostitution/domestic violence and other Heterosexually focused topics/groups/activism-BEWARE!
  • If arguing with men/MRAs/men calling themselves women/transwomen etc factors heavily in their life/day to day-BEWARE!
  • If sexually abused between the ages of 0 to 18, particularly 0-12 straight females have either an aversion to males or a pathological need to be sexual with men. For sexually abused straight females who developed an aversion to males, the hypersexual pathology still persists. This may present itself as a seemingly intense sexual newness that can be mistaken for normal Lesbian relationship newness/passion, but instead of a genuine Lesbian passion, the hypersexuality is due to pathology rather than legitimate Lesbian passion. Lesbian passion surely involves sex, but the intimacy developed through sex and passion quickly matures into a Lesbian relationship. Hypersexuality as exhibited by STRAIGHTBIANS/sexually abused straight females never develops beyond the sex stage, and parallels the internal age they were frozen at when the abuse occurred. That isnt to say that a STRAIGHTBIAN and a Lesbian may not form a long term involvement, but that involvement never develops into a fully mature intimate relationship. Lesbians usually find themselves confused in these involvements, often playing out the role (over and over) of a rescuer/saviour/helpmate and if the involvement lasts beyond a year the once hypersexual (straight) partner's interest in sex wanes (Lesbian Bed Death). BEWARE!
  • Repeated claims of victimhood, usually where none exists. Repeated attempts at creating seemingly useless/needless drama. BEWARE!
  • Pathologically (paranoia) thinks everyone is either an enemy and/or makes enemies out of everyone at some point. BEWARE!
  • Can seem younger than their age (child-like/teeny bopperish)-again stuck in time (like the needle on a scratched record)-usually at the age they were sexually abused. BEWARE!
  • Adamant in the belief that any woman can be a Lesbian. REALLY BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!! 
  • Exhibits stalkerish behaviour toward love interests, exes, perceived enemies. BEWARE!
  • Will perseverate on real or imagined slights (Borderline Personality issues) and stop at nothing to get even (time or money no object). BEWARE!
  • While as Lesbian youths we all play around with our look (hair/clothes etc), but where you see this persisting past the age of 30 (excessive piercings/tattoos/shave heads/mohawks/pink/blue/funky hair colours/gothy/clothing usually worn by preteens/teens etc). BEWARE!
  • These Women are often either directly or indirectly involved in versions or variations of the kabbalah, shamanism, witchery, tarot reading, runes, crystals, moon howling, drum circles, art projects involving their period blood, crones, midwifery, before marriage between same sex was legal they were often involved in ceremonial blessings/unions, high priestery, celestial shitola and many other special snowflakeries. STRAIGHTBIANS will have deeply studied or tried any or all in vain efforts to fix their early traumas/themselves. BEWARE!
While Lesbians also suffer from sexual abuse, due to differences in brain function, Lesbians obviously behave differently than Girls/Women who were abused. And because sexual abuse is usually perpetrated by a male, natural attraction isnt problematic for Lesbians in the way it is complicated for sexually abused Women. While we will elaborate these differences and complications in a later post, our point here being is that the behaviours listed above are not displayed in any enormity by sexually abused Lesbians or any Lesbian for that matter, they are however seen in high levels in STRAIGHTBIANS.

So to recap, we are not saying your new girlfriend's interest in the kabbalah or astrology should send you running for the hills, we are saying if you can tic multiple checks beside our list above-BEWARE!

Until Lesbian biology takes its rightful place, both Mrs Dirt and I individually and together will continue to give Lesbians the tools needed to see themselves as NORMAL, to see imposters in our dating pools and Lesbian authorities and to gain confidence and accuracy in our Gaydar.

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Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Transgender Regret-Happily NEVER After

A reader contacted me a few days ago regarding sharing her transition experiences with a greater audience, because up to now her feelings and her experiences around her transition where negative have not been at all welcome in her ( the Transgender) community. Unfortunately the Transgender community invests only in an All or Nothing narrative, the All being a sanguine version of Transition drugs, surgeries and familial/social experiences where reality isnt even allowed in the backseat.

This is a personal account of one person's transgender/transition experience, it may not be the lacquered version making headlines, but it is no less valid, in fact it is more:

I was born and raised as a female, and recall the first crush I had on a girl when I was 11 years old, she was my best friend in school. I suppressed these feelings, because at the time it was still illegal in the UK to discuss homosexuality in a positive way or to "promote" it. I didn't know anyone who was openly gay and happy, and so I responded with the heterosexual conditioning I had been raised with by society, and considered it wrong. Although I now largely prefer men, I recall strongly the confusion in my 11 year old self over liking a girl.

When I started puberty as a female, I began to feel discomfort in my body. I didn't like the breasts were developing, I didn't like periods, I didn't like how boys would make sexually suggestive comments and I didn't like the pressure from other girls, to be a girly girl. I wanted to remain a tomboy, which ultimately I did.

When I was 17, I joined an LGBT youth website. I very quickly discovered the trans section and began reading people's experiences. I read about people who never felt like girls, who wanted to be men. It felt like at the time, I had found the answer to what I was struggling with. I was a man trapped in a woman's body and that if I changed it, I would be happy and find peace with myself. At the age of 19, I saw a psychiatrist who specialised in gender identity disorders, who diagnosed me as a female to male transsexual. Throughout the entire process I didn't see a counselor or a therapist, to them it was box ticking. I started testosterone in 2011 and am still taking it today.

It wasn't until about two years ago, that I found a group on Facebook which was open to butches, femmes and trans men. For the first time in my life, I was around butch women who were proud of their butchness, who were proud to be butch women. Who took pride in their female bodies and in their lesbian identities. That was when I felt the first pangs of regret about the path I had gone down.

I have had the phalloplasty procedure to surgically construct a penis. The image I had in my head of what it would be, and how it is is completely different. The penis does not look like a "normal" penis and doesn't function like one. I have lost the use of my vagina for sex, because of a procedure they did to construct the urethra through the penis. I now have recurring urinary leakage problems due to the surgery. Risks that I was not made aware of.

I thought transition would bring me peace, it hasn't. I feel a bigger disconnect with my body now, than I ever did before I walked down that path. I am not suicidal and I am getting on well in life. But it feels strange to be seen as a man, because inside I still know I'm not. Since meeting those butch women, I feel an affinity to the term butch, even though I don't currently date women.

Perhaps if I had met those proud women when I was 17, I would have embraced my butch identity sooner and not felt the need to transition. I won't ever know.

At 17, I was not mature enough to make that decision and I personally feel that I was too young to start such a life and body altering process.

Not all trans stories are the happy endings that the trans community so carefully tries to present. There are some of us, like myself, who live in that silent regret, afraid to speak out publicly of their bad decision.



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Saturday, February 18, 2017

Lesbian Adults are NOT Women-How Hetero-Sociology Ignores Lesbians (part 3 of 3)


The first two posts of this series dealt specifically with how the heterosexual category Girl inadequately describes and fails Lesbian children and Lesbian teens; fails to represent Lesbian children/teenager's thinking processes/emotional processes and behaviours and how those processes drastically differ from heterosexual Girls. This post will delve into how the heterosexual category Woman and Lesbian differ and how the category Woman has for centuries and continues today to harm Lesbians.

As uncomfortable a fit Girl is to Lesbian children and Lesbian teens, it doesnt hold the sheer horror of Woman when applied to Lesbians. Girl, even teen Girl, while clearly heterosexual, the sexual in heterosexual between the ages of say 0 to mid/late teens usually is non existent. Meaning dykes, with minimal effort, can usually ignore being qualified Girl, since sexual feelings (toward another) at young ages is often absent. When the category Woman is applied to Lesbians later on, Dykes can no longer ignore their discomfort or their revulsion, because they are not merely ignoring differences in thought processes, emotions, behaviours, strengths and weaknesses, they now have to ignore the SEX in Woman which translates ONLY to heteroSEXUAL!

Because Lesbian youths do not often have the freedom nor the number of potential partners Girls have growing up, Lesbian adults usually use their 20's as relationship experience. It isnt that Lesbians are less mature than Girls/Women, we simply do not get to practice our relationships at school/school functions, dating etc. It is usually only when Lesbians reach young adulthood and we have control over our destinies that we can (more or less) freely begin meeting others like ourselves. It is unclear whether our lack of dating in youth, our Lesbian biology or our lack of being around large numbers of Lesbians (or all three) affects why Lesbian adults partner differently than heterosexual couples. Its rare to find a Lesbian couple that did the "dating thing" that is so common among heterosexuals. While we meet/find each other in a variety of ways, dating in the straight sense rarely factors in and when it does there is usually a STRAIGHTBIAN in the mix.

Another HUGE difference between Lesbian adults and Women is the BIOLOGICAL urge to procreate and the BIOLOGICAL changes that occur from giving birth. While there is clearly some sociological pressure for (hetero) females to procreate, the gist comes from heterosexual female brain functions. Obviously something evolutionary in order to propagate the species. Whatever it is that triggers that base need/desire among straight female brains, clearly does not exist in Lesbian brains. In the same token, that biological urge to bear children in most straight Women, doesnt come with a guarantee for maternal instincts. There was a minute in the 90's when Lesbians seemed to be popping out babies like puppies, but looking back with a discerning eye, what we actually find were STRAIGHTBIAN couples claiming to be Lesbians or a STRAIGHTBIAN coupled with a Dyke giving birth, not Lesbians themselves. There are clearly more Lesbian pet parents than there are Lesbian people parents, thats not to say that we dislike children, it is to say birthing/raising children isnt a BIOLOGICAL need/desire of Lesbians. And in fact when we do choose to parent either by our loins or adoption, we usually make BETTER parents than heterosexuals.

Some basic core changes that begin in puberty and stay consistent in Women:
  • The biological obsessive compulsion for Males. What are males doing? What are males thinking? What do males think about me? Does he like me? Does he like her? Can I change him? Will he marry me? Why wont he like me? Does he like my body? Even in Women that claim to be "man haters" or "radfems" it is rare to find a time they are not engaged in some sort of interaction with and/or rumination about males
  • Planning their wedding-enough said!
  • Being a mother-see above. 
  • Competing with/undermining/judging and actively criticizing other Girls/Women.
  • Social climbing seems to begin early for heterosexual females. Whether they desire the best trailer in the park or the costliest palace, money/possessions factor heavily in ALL straight female relationships.  
  • Appearance is like real estate to teen Girls/Women-Appearance Appearance Appearance!
  • A seemingly pathological dissatisfaction with everything! And an equally pathological need to bitch, gripe, moan and complain about it. Male brains have an interesting compatible ability to mostly tune this behaviour from heterosexual females out. Dykes who have partnered with Women, can tune it out to a lesser degree than males. All in all, Teen Girls and Women are never truly happy. 
Some basic core changes that begin in puberty and stay consistent in Lesbians:
  • Lesbians whether partnered or single do not lose who we are in effort to center the universe around our love life or any single part of our life for that matter. As wonderful as being in love feels, Lesbians do not change our personalities to fit someone else's, nor do we scheme to change our love interest's personality/behaviour.
  • Lesbians also do not lose focus on our interests/passions/talents over another Lesbian. In fact in most Lesbian adult relationships, Lesbians heavily support our lover's/wife's interests/passions/talents etc. 
  • Lesbian adults are not driven by childhood fairy tales to create the perfect wedding day! Lesbians are more invested in the relationship than the day it is legally official! 
  • Lesbians in the majority are not social climbers, we do not base our relationships on what job our lover has, the money she makes or doesnt make, where she buys her clothes or who her parents are. Its no coincidence than Lesbians are often listed by heterosexuals as being blue collar. Regardless of whether we are or arent working class, we function on purpose rather than perception. Frankly, we dont give a fuck. 
  • Lesbians also fail to be as impressed or impressed at all with wealth/possessions. An area we vastly differ from both heterosexual Women and Men.
  • Lesbians, regardless of the situation tend to be much more even-keeled temperamentally/emotionally than Girls/Women. Historically it is straight female's (seeming) over emotionalism (think hysteria) that caught the attention of early psychiatrists/psychologists since its inception. And lets be honest, from the point of view of a straight male brain whose emotions with the exception of anger/sex are drastically dulled by testosterone, the straight female brained human must seem like a raving hyena! The only thing that caught the attention of  psychiatrists/psychologists (past/present and future) by Lesbians is our romantic interests. Although presently, all psych tests are heterosexually biased and if a Lesbian child/Teen is tested and her test is measured under Girl, she will score as abnormal. If scored as male, she scores in the normal range. 
  • The discomfort Lesbian youths often feel being labeled in the category Girl persists into Lesbian adulthood with the heterosexual adult female category Woman. Some of us learn to exist past/beyond the Woman category once mature and some are never able to and instead try to ease their discomfort by transitioning. Regardless of where the Lesbian is with being improperly categorized as Woman, we are NEVER at home with the heterosexual term Woman
Like the heterosexual category Girl, Woman also presents a barrage of issues for Lesbians. Woman fails to adequately differentiate between Lesbian adult thought processes, emotions and behaviours from heterosexual Woman, it also fails to distinguish our night and day sexual orientation from Women. Lesbian adults are NOT Women and there is no need for Lesbians to pretend any longer that we are Women. The Femmiest of Lesbians cringe when being called a Woman, Woman is an UNFIT category for Lesbians, rather than the heterosexual assumption that Dykes make UNFIT Women! Lesbians are not Heterosexual, therefore Lesbians are NOT Women period, case closed, stick a fork in her ass, she's done...Lesbians have left the building!

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